NEELY wrote:wprager wrote:NEELY wrote:I've always said it's confidence and thought from the first real exposure to fans (play, interviews, and everything in between) he would be the captain of the Ottawa Senators. Never for a second has he ever come off cocky or anything other than supremely confident.
He like everyone else has off ice issues he had to learn to deal with and last year was obviously tough for him... he got through it and he's moved on.
http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cocky
http://www.thefreedictionary.com/cocky
http://www.yourdictionary.com/cocky
http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/english/cocky
All of the above use "confident" in their definition of "cocky". Confident with a smile could be considered cocky (whereas Toews never smiles).
Smiles are fine, smerks are what bugs the hell out of me. Might be a slight difference but body language is everything and it's fairly easy to pick up on. Karlsson comes off as a happy go lucky kind of guy... Spezza comes off as a complete a**hole and always has. Even worse in person.
It's really not complicated. One concept entails the other, while the other stands on its own. You can't be cocky without being confident, but you can be confident without being cocky.