wprager wrote:Look, BD, I provided a very objective source (Merriam-Webster) which clearly shows there are differences between the two terms. To be perfectly truthful, I don't use the term, and when I played it for the kids in the car I very quickly turned the volume down at the right times (just like I did for Pink Floyd's "Money" and other songs). So I realize that the word is not one to be spoken in "good company"; that said, I don't agree with the decision to censor it.
The problem with using an
objective source like Merriam Webster is that they are a dictionary, and they deal with words, not with sociology, anthropology, and people. But if that's not enough for you the American Heritage Dictionary says the word "faggot" is
disparaging and offensive. MSN Encarta defines the word as "an offensive term for a happy man". Cambridge American English dictionary, as well as their Advanced Learner's dictionary, states that "faggot" is an offensive word. The Oxford Advanced Learner's as the word "faggot" as an "offensive word for a male homosexual." All of these are
objective sources, which shows that yes, this word is offensive.
And even if one were to use Merriam-Webster as the end all of the discussion, I don't believe in waiting around and keeping a word public until it becomes
offensive according to them. You know the word N***** was once widely accepted. In 1939, Agatha Christie's book
And Then There were None was originally entitled
Ten Little N*****s.
What I don't seem to understand is why you are supporting the use of a word that has become highly offensive to homosexuals. I have friends who have been called that, and it's pretty powerful stuff. It is offensive. This I'm telling you. Now if you would rather not pay attention to that at all, and continue the support the use of it (by others, not yourself) because Merriam Webster says it's not offensive, then that's your decision.